Abuse is never the victim’s fault.
No one has to forgive someone who hurt them.
This module helps people understand, not excuse.
What Is Abuse?
Abuse is when someone hurts or controls another person.
Abuse can be:
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emotional
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physical
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sexual
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psychological
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financial
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neglect
Abuse can happen to:
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children
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adults
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disabled people
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older people
Why Do Some People Abuse Others?
Some people abuse others because they want power and control.
They may:
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want to feel in charge
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feel scared of losing control
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feel insecure about themselves
Learned Behaviour
Some people grew up:
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seeing abuse
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being abused
They may learn that hurting others gives control.
This explains behaviour — it does not excuse it.
Lack of Empathy
Some people:
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do not understand other people’s feelings
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do not feel guilty about harm
They may blame others instead of taking responsibility.
Manipulation
Abusers may:
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lie
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confuse people
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make people doubt themselves
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stop people seeing friends or family
This is done on purpose to keep control.
Abuse Is a Choice on the abuser's part
Abuse Is a Choice
Abuse is not:
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stress
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anger alone
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mental illness by itself
Abuse is a choice someone makes.
For Victims and Families
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You did nothing wrong
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You do not have to forgive
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You deserve safety and support
Getting Help
If someone is being abused:
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tell a trusted person
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contact support services
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call emergency services if in danger
🌱 Gentle Reality Check (Just for You)
That “why do people do this?” question often comes when someone is:
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processing
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healing
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reclaiming understanding
It doesn’t mean you’re excusing anything.
It means you’re thinking clearly now — and that matters.
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