A – Abuse (Including Child Abuse)
What Is Abuse?
Abuse is when someone uses power to hurt or control another person.
Abuse can be:
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emotional
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physical
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sexual
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psychological
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neglect
Abuse can happen to children and adults.
Child Abuse (Very Important)
Child abuse is when an adult or older child harms a child.
This includes:
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sexual abuse
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physical harm
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emotional harm
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neglect
Children do not cause abuse.
Children do not invite abuse.
Children cannot consent to abuse.
Why Child Abuse Is So Hidden
Young children:
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do not understand what is happening
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may not have words to explain
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may be scared of getting into trouble
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may be threatened or manipulated
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may be told it is “a secret”
This is why abuse can go on for a long time.
Sexual Abuse of Children
Sexual abuse is when a child is involved in sexual acts they do not understand and cannot agree to.
It can be:
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touching
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exposure
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online abuse
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exploitation
Most abuse is done by someone the child knows, not strangers.
How Abuse Affects Children’s Mental Health
Abuse can affect a child’s:
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sense of safety
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trust in adults
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emotions
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learning
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behaviour
Later in life, this may show as:
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anxiety
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depression
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PTSD
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self-blame
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difficulty with relationships
These are injuries, not weaknesses.
Abuse Is About Power and Control
Research shows abuse happens because:
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the abuser wants power
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the abuser wants control
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the abuser chooses secrecy
Children are targeted because they are vulnerable.
Important Truth
Abuse is not:
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love
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discipline
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a mistake
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caused by stress
Abuse is a choice.
Signs a Child May Be Struggling
Children may show abuse through:
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behaviour changes
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fear
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withdrawal
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regression (bedwetting, thumb-sucking)
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anger or distress
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sexualised behaviour beyond their age
Children often show, not tell.
Adult Responsibility
It is never the child’s job to:
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explain clearly
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report properly
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go to the police
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protect themselves
Adults must:
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listen
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notice
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believe
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act
Safeguarding Matters
Safeguarding means:
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protecting children from harm
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acting early
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reporting concerns
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putting safety first
Silence protects abusers — not children.
T – Trauma
Trauma is what happens inside a person when something overwhelming happens.
Children’s trauma may:
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stay hidden
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come out later in life
Trauma-informed care means:
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safety
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trust
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choice
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patience
P – PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder)
PTSD can develop after abuse.
It may include:
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flashbacks
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nightmares
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fear
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emotional numbness
Children and adults can both experience PTSD.
D – Dissociation
Dissociation is when the mind “disconnects” to cope.
This is common in children who cannot escape abuse.
It is a survival response.
S – Safeguarding and Support
Support can include:
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trusted adults
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counselling
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trauma-informed therapy
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child protection services
Getting help is not betrayal.
It is protection.
Key Message for the A–Z
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Children cannot protect themselves
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Children cannot report like adults
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Abuse thrives on silence
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Understanding abuse helps stop it
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