Wednesday, 23 July 2025

stigma, eating difficulties, and taking responsibility: a balanced view

 


not everyone with irritable bowel syndrome (ibs), digestive issues, or weight challenges has an eating disorder or obesity. and not everyone who lives with these problems misunderstands health advice. many people do understand the advice — they just find it very difficult to follow, especially if they are struggling with an unseen condition, like binge eating disorder (bed), emotional eating, or food-related trauma.

it’s important to say:

craving food a lot or struggling with self-control is not simply about willpower.

for some, these behaviors started years ago, and even they may not fully understand why they overeat or binge.

checking weight and monitoring health is not wrong. but taking medical tests to look deeper into what’s happening inside the body (like hormone levels, gut health, thyroid issues, or nutrient deficiencies) is another valid and helpful step.

what often makes things harder is the stigma — the blame that people feel from others or even place on themselves. too often, people are judged for their size or symptoms without anyone understanding what they are truly going through.

taking responsibility is important, but so is compassion. real, lasting support often starts with looking at the whole person, not just numbers on a scale.

stigma can go both ways. while some people are judged for eating too much or living in larger bodies, others are judged for eating very little, avoiding food, or being underweight. this can affect people with:

anorexia nervosa or other restrictive eating disorders

ibs, crohn’s, or other gut conditions that make eating painful or difficult

sensory sensitivities, such as in autism, where food textures, smells, or routines cause avoidance

anxiety, trauma, or depression, which often reduce appetite

and just like those who overeat may not fully understand why they do, those who under-eat may also be confused, ashamed, or fearful of food. comments like “just eat something” or “you’re too skinny” don’t help and can cause deep harm.

here’s a short version that could go on a new slide:


stigma can go both ways

people are also judged for eating too little, not eating at all, or being underweight.

this can be linked to eating disorders, gut illness, mental health issues, or sensory needs.

it’s not always a choice — sometimes, food causes pain or distress.

blame and pressure make things worse. support and understanding are key.

owerpoint title:

preventing stigma around eating disorders and health conditions


slide 1: title slide

title: preventing stigma around eating disorders and health conditions

subtitle: understanding, compassion, and support

your name / organization (optional)


slide 2: what is stigma?

stigma means unfair negative beliefs about people.

it can make people feel ashamed or alone.

stigma affects many health issues, including eating disorders.


slide 3: common misunderstandings

people might think eating disorders are about being “picky” or “attention-seeking.”

people with ibs or obesity may be blamed unfairly.

these ideas are wrong and hurt people’s feelings and health.


slide 4: how stigma affects people

makes people hide their problems.

stops people from getting help.

can cause stress, anxiety, and worsen health.


slide 5: why understanding matters

eating disorders and health conditions are medical issues.

everyone deserves kindness and support.

learning the facts helps us all be more caring.


slide 6: how to prevent stigma

use respectful language (e.g., “person with an eating disorder,” not “anorexic”).

don’t judge or blame people for their illness.

listen and offer support without making assumptions.


slide 7: how to support someone struggling

encourage them to seek professional help.

be patient and non-judgmental.

offer to learn more together about their condition.


slide 8: remember: you can help

your words and actions matter.

treat everyone with respect and kindness.

together, we can stop stigma and make a safer, more understanding world.


slide 9: resources and help

list local or online support organizations (e.g., national eating disorders association - neda)

hotlines or websites for eating disorders and related health issues.


slide 10: questions and discussion

invite questions or sharing experiences.

thank you for listening!


 

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