Thursday, 2 July 2026

Dreams

 

Why don't we remember most dreams?

Most people have several dreams every night, especially during REM (Rapid Eye Movement) sleep, but many are forgotten within minutes of waking.

Scientists think this happens because:

  • The brain is working differently during REM sleep.
  • The parts of the brain responsible for storing long-term memories are less active.
  • If you don't wake up during or just after a dream, you're less likely to remember it.

Have you ever had this happen?

You wake up thinking:

"I was just having a really interesting dream..."

Then, within a minute, you can't remember what it was about!

That's extremely common.


Why are dreams so strange?

Dreams often don't follow the normal rules of everyday life.

In a dream you might:

  • Meet someone who died years ago.
  • Fly through the sky.
  • Suddenly be back at school as an adult.
  • Be talking to your childhood pet.
  • Visit places that don't really exist.

While you're dreaming, it all seems perfectly normal.

Only when you wake up do you think,

"That didn't make any sense!"


Are dreams about real life?

Sometimes yes.

Sometimes no.

Psychologists have found that dreams can include:

  • Things that happened during the day.
  • Memories from years ago.
  • Worries or stress.
  • Hopes for the future.
  • Completely random combinations of people, places and events.

For example, you might dream about:

  • Your old school.
  • Your current home.
  • A famous actor.
  • A talking dog.

Your brain can mix all these together into one dream!


Different theories about dreams

Psychologists have several ideas about why we dream.

1. Wish Fulfilment

Sigmund Freud believed dreams reflected unconscious wishes and desires.

Today, most psychologists don't accept all of Freud's ideas, but his work helped start the scientific study of dreams.


2. Processing Information

Some researchers think dreams help us:

  • Organise memories.
  • Sort information.
  • Learn from experiences.
  • Strengthen important memories.

3. Activation-Synthesis Theory

J. Allan Hobson and Robert McCarley suggested that dreams happen because the brain becomes active during REM sleep.

The brain then tries to make sense of this activity by creating a story.

This could explain why dreams often seem unusual or confusing.


4. Threat Simulation

Another idea is that dreams allow us to practise dealing with danger.

For example, dreaming about being chased might help the brain rehearse how to respond to threatening situations.

Scientists are still investigating this theory.


Your example about songs

I also found it interesting when you mentioned that old songs stay in your mind much more than old films.

Dreams are a bit similar.

Sometimes a dream includes something you haven't thought about for years—a person from school, an old house, or a childhood toy.

It's as though the brain has opened an old filing cabinet and picked out memories from different times in your life, mixing them together into one story.

No one knows exactly why the brain chooses those particular memories.


One of my favourite facts

During REM sleep:

  • Your brain can be almost as active as when you're awake.
  • Your eyes move rapidly beneath your eyelids.
  • Most of your muscles become temporarily relaxed (almost "switched off").

This is actually helpful because it stops most people from physically acting out their dreams. If that protective mechanism didn't exist, many of us would be running, jumping, or waving our arms while dreaming!


For your book

I think this chapter is a wonderful opportunity to remind learners that psychology doesn't have all the answers. It's perfectly acceptable for science to say:

"This is what we know so far, but we're still investigating."

Dreams are one of those mysteries. We understand the stages of sleep, we can measure brain activity, and we know REM sleep is closely linked with vivid dreaming—but why we dream, why some dreams seem meaningful while others are completely bizarre, and why some are remembered while others vanish almost instantly are still active areas of research.

That sense of mystery is part of what makes the study of consciousness and sleep so fascinating.

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