π± Module Overview (Easy Read)
This module explains:
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Why children were often told to be “seen and not heard”
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How children were affected by stress at home
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Why bullying between children happened
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Why adults did not always understand mental health
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How awareness has improved — and why more change is still needed
π§ Children Knew More Than Adults Realised
In the past:
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Adults often believed children did not understand adult problems
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Children were expected to stay quiet
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Adults believed children should not talk about difficult things
But in reality:
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Children heard arguments
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Children saw distress
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Children felt fear and worry
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Children understood more than adults thought
Children did not always have the words to explain how they felt.
π Stress at Home Affected Children
Before the 1990s:
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Mental health support was limited
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Families had little help
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Stress, anger, and fear were often hidden
Children may have:
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Witnessed arguments between parents
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Seen violence or emotional distress
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Felt unsafe or anxious
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Had no one to talk to
This stress did not disappear at school.
⚠️ Why Bullying Between Children Happened
Some children:
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Were carrying stress from home
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Did not feel safe anywhere
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Had no support
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Did not know how to express feelings
Because of this:
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Feelings came out as anger
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Some children took it out on others
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Bullying became a way to cope
This does not excuse bullying,
but it helps us understand why it happened.
π§π« Why Adults Missed the Signs
Many adults:
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Were not trained in mental health
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Did not understand trauma
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Believed discipline solved problems
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Did not know how to listen safely
Some adults:
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Ignored bullying
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Minimized abuse
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Caused harm themselves
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Believed silence meant things were fine
This was not always about cruelty —
it was often about lack of knowledge.
π What Has Improved
Since the 1990s:
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Mental health awareness has grown
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Counselling is more available
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Safeguarding rules exist
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Disability and learning differences are better understood
People now talk more openly about:
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Anxiety and depression
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Trauma and abuse
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Bullying and safeguarding
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Children’s rights
π§ But We Still Have a Long Way to Go
Even today:
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Some people are still afraid to speak up
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Bullying still happens
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Mental health support is not equal for everyoneAwareness has improved,
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